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“So this holy life, bhikkhus, does not have gain, honour, and renown for its benefit, or the attainment of virtue for its benefit, or the attainment of concentration for its benefit, or knowledge and vision for its benefit. But it is this unshakeable deliverance of mind that is the goal of this holy life, its heartwood, and its end.”
‘The herds of deer will eat fodder encroaching entranced on this crop sown by me; encroaching entranced and eating the fodder, they will get elated; being elated they will get careless; being careless they will become those to be done to as one wills amid this crop.’
These commandment make the life of monks or anyone who has right understanding and do follow the Buddha's teaching will has holiness and peaceful life. From this peaceful life you will reach right concentration and enlightenment to own born, old, sickness, death and end of reborn.
Everything is impermanent and changed in every moments. Therefore nothing is you, is yours and is your ego.
Commandment is a teacher. There is commandment, The Buddhism is still alive. There isn't commandment, The Buddhism lost.